Giving gift itself is a gift. It can cool down an anger person. It can make a baby love to bloom. Or, a bribery to give you something you want from a person or whatever. Why is it so powerful? Because it trigger positive emotions of the receiver and a happy person can agree to almost anything.
To trigger the best emotion, we need to
give the best gift and to do that, we need to know that person’s interest and
passion.
Here’s 9 tips to find things that make your
loved one happy:
Pay attention to the things that person talks about when he’s in extreme happiness.
Psuchologically, we tend to talk about
things that suits out emotion on that time. If we were happy, we tend to talk
about something that makes us feel happy, things that love us, things that we
love, things that give us a good feeling.
So pay attention to those things. The best
thing is the things that is mentioned when that person is in extreme excitement.
For example, you get “you know what, …..!!!” “I love to…” “wish we can…” and
all this were mentioned while smiling, with the eyes opened widely, eyes
looking at the above, the skies, the ceiling, the…whatever above. Tha’s the
sign of imagination. Dreams, happiness. Note that.
Things that make your loved one stops for a long time during shopping
I have a friend who, just like me, isn’t interested
in shopping. But I noticed that whenever we walk pass mannequin shops, she’ll
walk slower and stops longer even when she buys nothing from any of the stores.
That could hint something.
Things that your loved one always talk about when he/she’s online
Studies shows
that people tend to be more to themselves when they are online. They’ll talk
about something that really interest them only. So go and stalk their online
activities. For example, forums and clubs or journal online. For example, one
might not seem to be interested in Korean songs in real life, but might be a
fan of Korean entertainment industry online. Stalk. Take note. Put it in your
potential gift list.
Things that your loved one is collecting
If you see that your loved one has some
things that they don’t actually need but they keep buying it anyway, than
that’d be your potential gift.
Facebook Page
Stalk that person’s Facebook account and
take note the pages he/she likes.
Instagram Account
Again, pay attention to your loved
one’s intagram account and take note the accounts he/she follows. It tells
almost everything that you need.
Profile pictures
People are
usually tend to associate themselves with something that they think the best. For
example, again, my best friend who loves cars mannequin so much, use Macqueen photos
as her profile picture. Other friends use football clubs, cats, dogs, or even
flowers as their profile pictures. If it’s their own pictures, scrutinize the
picture, the picture could be the best picture for them to represent themselves
so take note. If it shows caps, u can give a nice cap as a gift. If it shows an
obsession with camera, you know what’d be the perfect gift right?
Overall, finding
the interest and passion is essential to choose the best gift for your loved ones. Apply these tips and experience the best reaction from your loved one. All
the best!
